The name--Demere--was nounced a great deal differently in West Texas--Demry--was as close as it came to the original French. No Texan could ever come close, so Demry was just fine, and logical.
The name along with two brothers came from France in the early 1700s. My cousin in Memphis has prepared an exhaustive history of the Demere family from its beginning.
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Over the last
half millennium, the Demere family has been involved in several pivotal
situations in the history of France, Britain, and America. Participants in the
original bittersweet antebellum tradition of the South, the Demere descendants
built wealth, prosperity and a plantation lifestyle, only to fall to the Union
torch.
Twice undergoing
a diaspora, the family was scattered first from France by Roman Catholic
persecution of the Huguenots, and finally throughout America by the economic
havoc visited by the War Between the States. Family members of the past have
been returned to life by historical novels of the present, most recently in
Eugenia Price’s bestseller, Beauty from Ashes.
The Deméré’s
fellow Huguenots had begun their military tradition during the 16th
century Wars of Religion in France. After fleeing Roman Catholic persecution in the late 17th
and early 18th centuries, many Huguenots found welcome in the
British Army. The two sons of Huguenots Isaac and Marie Demeré born in early 18th
century France traveled the world in the service of King George
II as British Army officers, engaged their king’s enemies, and became the source of the family
in America. One would die at an old age having become a prosperous sea island
planter in 1760’s Georgia, and his brother would perish grievously on the South
Carolina frontier.
The Demerés would
help to cement the British claim to North America, to fight for both the
Georgia and South Carolina colonies, and would be the first official British in
what is now the State of Tennessee. There were few Redcoat officers serving in
the Colonies at the time and, therefore, the brothers participated in a variety
of historical episodes throughout the colonies. These events were broadly
recorded in hundreds of their surviving letters and military reports.
The early
colonies were literally shaped by the British military, and the Redcoat
warriors Raymond and Paul Demeré had an active hand in that formation. The
harsh reality of their lives reminds us what life was truly like in the
colonial South.
The Demere
families in America today are a branch of one of the two halves of the family
tree begun by these two men. Both brothers came to the Georgia colony at St.
Simons Island. Raymond’s descendants stayed there for generations (the St.
Simons Island Branch), whereas Paul’s descendants migrated to the environs of
Savannah, Georgia (the Savannah Branch).
Their Patriot and
Loyalist descendants of these warriors personify the political and economic
events of the country’s youth. Demeres fought alongside George Washington in
two wars and knew him well. Branches of the family were ravaged by each
military action on Southern American soil, most devastatingly by the War
Between the States. The soil of magnolias, live oak, and Spanish moss from
which they harvested the fine Sea Island cotton, rice, mulberry leaves, and
cedar became the soil into which they spilled their blood and buried their
dead.
The author is
greatly indebted to the many descendants of these early Georgians who have been
eager to share their own interest, insight, enthusiasm, and years of research.
These ladies and gentlemen of Demere blood surely are, as they were described by
one ancestor, “Grand Old Southern Stock.”